Bearing the cost

I wish she would grow up. She wasted all her school time wanting to be the age she is now, and she'll waste all the rest of her life trying to stay that age. Her whole idea is to race on to the silliest time of one's life as quick as she can and then stop there as long as she can. - Lewis, "The Last Battle" - about Susan and how silly she is being, saying that Narnia is for children

Monday, February 18, 2008

money

Money.

Money is annoying. Tough to make, too easy to spend.

I really miss the days of having everything provided gratis at the hand of mom and dad. When it didn't matter how cold it got overnight, because I wasn't paying for the gas. When I could have as many friends over as I wanted, because Mom would put out food and I wouldn't have to worry about not eating for the next week. When I could get any new book I wanted because Dad would cover it. Ahh - those were the good ole days.

The trouble with budgeting is that you have to stick to it. I actually love making up budgets; I think it's a carryover from the days of counting, recounting, sorting and resorting my $12.53 worth of coins. But I have never kept a budget yet - I don't think I've ever even made the attempt. I just keep drawing up plans.

But now it's come down to the line. My OU account was sent to Collections and I have three options: 1. pay in full immediately (umm, impossible). 2. pay within 60 days (very tough). 3. pay in monthly installments (which sounds great, but it involves going through a judge and court/lawyer fees totaling $500 - plus, there's a hold on my transcripts until paid in full and I really need access to those pretty quick). I've figured out that if I stick to this budget, I can manage to pay off the whole amount in two months, with only a bit of help from mom and dad in April (taxes didn't come out in my favor this year). It means being super serious about keeping the budget, and living really meagerly. It means denying myself lots of fun. It means giving up Saturdays.

It's also only for three months (March-May). After that, I'm free. And I think freedom is worth three months of strict discipline. And I think that it will be great for me to really learn how to keep to a budget. I'm going to use the envelope method, because I spend plastic really easily and can't seem to ever get any of my purchases written down. Plus, I've heard good things about this method.

Friday, February 15, 2008

out of retirement

I haven't posted in over a year. What's happened in the intervening time?
late 2006
Thanksgiving in Norman with Ian Puffenberger and Kristen Hudec
writing finals for my students without their textbook
christmas in memphis
diploma received
friend to rehab
roommates dating
2007
skiing and winter conference
roommates breaking up
Easter hymn sing (coming again soon!)
Easter lunch at Giuliano's
end-of-year debacle
writing finals for my 6-8th graders with their book (a much easier task)
living with Katie and Katie for the summer
sending Katie off to Peru
the semester of work - averaging 45 hours each week, sometimes working up to 70 hours
Relish retreat to lakehouse
girls' trip to Dallas - Becky, Colleen, Laurie
the week of cookies - 50 dozen for OU/Texas weekend (that's 600 completely decorated cookies)
blow out bash for Brittany's 24th - 80s prom!
Thanksgiving in Norman at Giuliano's
crazy holiday season
Christmas surprise - Catie came home a day early!
very sick
2008
no more Fancy That!
teaching art appreciation on Friday mornings
RAMR 34 completed
moving?!?
Haminha weekend for Relish retreat